My wife is cold
I am out of town.
What I do when I am away doesn’t matter
You’ve been around the block. You’ve run out of patience. You have more years behind you than ahead of you. Suzy in accounting has flirted with you and her body is SO firm…maybe…
You are a smart guy. You know that schmucks and idiots get caught. One drink is innocent enough. That won’t hurt anyone. You just want to feel alive again!
You say to yourself you won’t cheat. Coincidentally, you tell yourself cheating isn’t even an option. But after your last drink and that soft kiss, you have already started to think about what’s next. You didn’t anticipate this event. You’ve never stepped out of your marital vows before. Now look in the mirror. You’ve been researching how to cheat, how not to get caught and your double life is accelerating at a rapid pace.
You’ve learned the lingo, codes and rules for cheaters so as to avoid detection. These rules will give you a squeaky clean alibi 100% of the time. You’ll become a specialist in knowing how to circumvent the minefield and even learn the clear path to erase 100% of your activities, 100% without suspicion. You’ll anticipate your spouse’s skeptical attitude and laugh off the occasional accusation. Your unintentional plan has guidelines to follow and you’ve followed them.
This too, will end.
Regardless of how you account for your duality, irrational behavior and twisted reasoning, you will pay the price. The price you pay is always in the future. In actuality, just as generations before you ignored the obvious, your guilt is so far removed from reality, you rarely feel it at all.
You don’t PLAN on getting caught, after all!You’ve thought of everything. You have erased every trace. You and your accomplice have co-written the rules and agreed to your duplicity. You probably have agreed to the following:
You both have 2nd anonymous webmail account.
You’ve agreed to delete all your email as soon as you’ve read it.
You’ve agreed to delete your browsing history every day.
The two of you always leave innocent voicemails.
You have a cryptic language that nobody else would understand.
The two of you have strict rules about using cash for everything when together.
You’ve only had liaisons when you are out of town.
The two of you don’t change your affection towards your spouses.
You never have unprotected sex with your lover.
You have purchased an “Alibi Service” and have iron-clad excuses for being away.
There are infinite variables. Your skills are not exclusive, however. People who are cheated upon have access to programs that can capture your every key stroke. The result is that even after you delete your email, put it in the trash and empty that, the keys you tapped to create your love letter are recorded by the program and stored in a hidden file for retrieval by your spouse at a later date…Bingo!
There is, of course, a rational and honest outcome that eliminates deception, conflict and the cost of a dual life.
Communication, personalities and sexual connection doesn’t come without effort. Cheating on your spouse comes with a heavy price to pay-start investing now.
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